If you want something very badly in life.....

If you want something very badly in life.....don't wait for it but move on....move on not because the Universe will anyways conspire to give it to you but because waiting has never helped anybody achieve anything.As the wait becomes longer and longer, the soul inside becomes more restless.It gets torn apart in the fight between "what you are" and "what you could have been".The desperation and frustration shows on the face in spite of your fake smile.The person gets reduced to an automated machine which is bereft of any sense of enjoyment and excitement.Self-motivation become almost impossible.Your ability gets enveloped by the thick mist of undelivered promise.Your self-respect is attacked at will by people who never cared or infact who do not need to understand you beyond a point where your utility value is a "no-value" for them.If you wait and wait thinking that one fine day a Guardian Angel will turn up and lead you on your Road to Glory, you would end up as a loser.So,what should you do?...should you compromise?....should you change your goals and and base those on your current state of affairs?Tough question...isn't it?

I have realised that we human beings are masters in making plans but we cannot master planning.The glorious uncertainties of life would just not allow us to live as we wish."Jeevan ek rangmanch hain....aur hum is rangmanch ke kathputliya".This is a dialogue from the evergreen classic "Anand".It aptly sums up the helplessness of human beings.We can conquer others but we fail miserably when things come to our own life.

A man is always at crossroads.He makes the choices...atleast he assumes so but in reality he has been made to choose what he has chosen by some invisible force of nature.I had my plans too but now that I see those crumbling against forces of destiny,I feel life is just for living.We make it complicated by involving so many equations into it.When you have hit the road and you don't know the destiny,there is no point in waiting for someone to guide you as after a point you would find yourself exploited as that "someone" himself/herself is lost and he/she just used you for his/her journey to the imagined El Dorado.It is better to go ahead and enjoying everything that journey has to offer you for you gain a lot from that holistic experience.The journey is going to be tough and some sort of fight is awaiting you there at every turn.Making plans and losing sleep over it is the worst thing that you can do.Rather, treating life as an extempore would give a whole new meaning to your existence.